Well, actually I am sure I did say that. (To quote Kathryn Falk: "It sounds like me").
“Fandom is a gateway ‘drug’ for erotica and romance reading and writing - not only for m/m,” explains Emily Veinglory, author of several popular erotica novels, including Eclipse of the Heart. “It helps modern people get over the stereotypes associated with both genres as ‘trash’ fiction only for the undereducated or perverted.”
From an article by C. Potts.